There is no script to follow for ‘life’. And sometimes that’s a great thing. But at others it can be incredibly overwhelming. When you hit choice points, don’t know what to do next, and if things feel confusing and unclear, I can help you to systematically work through everything on your mind and in your heart. Together we can sort the truth from the stories, the wheat from the chaff, and come up with achievable next steps that will see you move forwards and out of stuck.
Using radical honesty and compassionate listening, I provide a safe space in which to explore contentious issues and to enable you to hear each other. Through classic mediation and negotiation techniques, we can work together towards agreement and resolution, via shared goals and mutual understanding. If the result of this process, having considered things from all angles, is that you choose to split up, I can help you to consciously uncouple with dignity and mutual respect – in honour of your love and time together – and support you both moving forwards in your own lives.
*Mediation can be offered face to face or by video call, and is available for two people or for larger groups. All genders and orientations welcome.
Stress is not an illness. It’s your individual response to pressure. That’s why it affects us all in different ways and to different degrees. Some stress is a good thing. But when stress builds up, it can be harmful. I can help you recognise the signs of stress and show you how manage it before it overwhelms you. I can also help you to review the sources of stress in your life and help you to find more balance where this is possible. There are a number of tools and techniques I can teach you, including mindfulness and meditation if appropriate (see meditation and mindfulness page here).